October 25 – Our Half / Legal Anniversary

Today is Ed and my “Half-Anniversary”, AKA our “Legal Anniversary”. As I have already detailed in a 2015 blog post when Marriage Equality finally went national, Ed and I got married April 25, 1998, the fifth anniversary of our meeting. We didn’t receive our legal marriage rights until 2011, when New York State legalized same-sex marriage. For those papers we got married again at City Hall on October 25, our half-year anniversary date, only a few months after the new law went into effect, rather than wait until April, 2012 to do so on our actual anniversary.

This summer, photographer Michael R. Dekker invited us to pose for him in his studio. Rather than wait until our “real” anniversary next year, I thought I’d share images from that session today, on our “other” anniversary. Ed and I are generally very firm that April 25 is our proper anniversary: we met that date in 1993, got married that date in 1998, and it just took 13 / 15 / 17 years for the government to catch up to reality. Unlike April 25, Ed and I usually let October 25 pass by uncommented upon, even if our aunts on Ed’s side of the family invariably send us cards/emails. (I just joked to Aunt Louise that “it’s all part of a dastardly plan to force aunts to send two cards a year! Mua ha ha!”) But perhaps October 25 does deserve a little more recognition as an anniversary in our household – so sharing these photos will be my way to honor the date on my blog this time.

And the photos also touch upon a little story about our wedding rings that hadn’t made it into the earlier blog post…

Ed and me wearing the Tibetan shirts we’d acquired in 1998 to wear at the Sunday Brunch the day after the Wedding.

Michael was very intrigued by our rings, as illustrated by how prominently they show up in many of his photos. They are one-of-a-kind rings we designed ourselves and had a specialist make for us.

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GREECE – The Acropolis

Ed and I spent three fantastic weeks in Greece this August. Providing in photos and videos a wealth of eye candy for a series of blog posts. Surely it makes sense to make the famous Acropolis in Athens the first of this series. If there is one thing at the top of any list when one thinks of Greece it is surely the Acropolis.

And the Parthenon is the most well known part of the Acropolis, so I will top this blog post with a photo of it. And below, a video:

This video takes us on a nice panoramic scroll along the Parthenon, as well as other views on top of the Acropolis:

Okay, we’ll actually got to the Parthenon in the middle of this excursion, which started at the Southeast entrance below the Acropolis.

The Amphitheater of Dionysos

The Stoa of Eumenes

The Odeion

The placard above explains that the Odeion hosts performances regularly in the modern era. I attended a performance there when I was 5 years old (the only other time I visited Greece). My mother (Catherine Gayer) was singing the Soprano solo part in Carmina Burana. I remember sitting in the amphitheater seating on a cushion, leaning against my father’s shoulder. I’m afraid I probably slept through the evening performance, as I have a clearer memory of the theater during daylight, when we attended a dress rehearsal.

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DANCE ON THE VOLCANO – a Revue

Last Thursday I had the privilege and pleasure to perform in “Dance on the Volcano“, a revue covering the tumultuous years of the Weimar Republic, the short time of democracy in Germany between the end of World War One and the rise of the Third Reich. Presented by Elysium – Between Two Continents and the Leo Baeck Institute – New York / Berlin at the Center for Jewish History, the revue featured soprano Jeannie Im, tenor Michael Protacio, pianist Samuel Kardos and myself as the Narrator.

Almost all the songs sung by Jeannie and Michael were from the Weimar era and sung in German (with English translations projected on a large screen). In between musical numbers, I as Narrator recited (in English translations) diverse texts – poems, journal entries, newspaper columns, satirical and polemical commentary – by a wide collection of luminaries of the time. I also joined in the singing in the opening and closing numbers as well as a campy duet “Wenn die Beste Freundin” (once made famous by Marlene Dietrich) in which Jeannie and I play Besties who both sleep with Jeannie’s “cute little husband”, Michael, who makes it a trio for the final chorus.

That number followed hard upon a (deceptively) high-minded appraisal of the industrial railway system. But emotional whiplash from harsh to humorous was part of the esthetic of the revue, befitting the era it described.

I’ll quote some lines from a few of the texts, to give you a sense:

Klaus Mann on the hyperinflation that bedeviled Germany after WW1:

Had lonely thinkers once dreamed of of a “reevaluation of all values”? Instead we now experienced the total devaluation of the one value that a godless epoch had truly believed in: money.

and Mann again, evoking the title metaphor of the revue:

The dollar is rising: let’s let ourselves fall! Why should we be more stable than our currency?

Among many others, I also took on the persona of avant-garde dancer Valeska Gert:

Because I did not love the bourgeois, I danced those he despised … Until now, prostitutes had never been depicted on the dance stage … I danced the coitus.

More examples: Erich Mühsam reconceives Goethe’s poem about Italy “Do you know the land where the lemon tree blooms” as “Do you know the land where the fascists bloom?” In Bertolt Brecht’s satirical poetic sermon “700 Intellectuals Worship an Oil Tank” and Erwin Piscator evokes George Grosz’s “Christ with a Gas Mask”:

A new Christ. All the more shattering because it corresponded to the facts. For had he not been condemned to silence for four years?

Text at bottom left: Shut up and keep on serving
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Looking Up in New York 4

Exclusively vertical views this time, while walking down Central Park West and 8th Avenue.

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Deconstruction of my own personal NEW YORKER CARTOON captions


Homo Barbershoptus went extinct in the late Tinpanalleycene.

And we are back for another six-pack (plus one alternate caption). This is the 26th edition! Every installment of the full series can be most easily located in the literary lyricism archives.

Another one hit wonder on the pop charts.

In 15 minutes it’ll be “whatever became of so and so?”.

The same as Nixon’s dog, but with an upgrade.

Maybe the car shouldn’t have been the “something old”…

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Sunset on 42nd and 8th, last night

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ARTSY MINIATURE GOLF

Attending the Drachenfest on the Tempelhofer Feld in Berlin I came upon a delightfully innovative miniature golf field called the Nuture Mini Art Golf:

The above sign perfectly explains the conceit behind this unique miniature golf course. The photos below will hopefully give you a fair representation of the whimsy, artfulness and originality involved. Some of the courses play like traditional courses, even if they look unusual. But many of the courses incorporate original ways of playing and difficulties. Making this course one of the more unique miniature golf course in aesthetics and game play. My passions for miniature golf, visual art, and the environment are all very well nurtured.

Remember that classic maze game? Here it is cleverly incorporated into a miniature golf course.

For the fans and traumatized viewers of “Jaws”:

The next two feature more traditional obstacles, wrought in steam punk aesthetic:

Get the ball atop through an oil barrel covered in bank notes:

The cage is filled with rubber chickens:

In case I wasn’t clear, the artsy factor didn’t diminish the difficulty factor in play:

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DRAGONS (Kites) in BERLIN!

Drachen in German means dragon. It also means kite.

September 12 thousands of Berliners congregated in the Tempelhofer Feld to celebrate the “Drachenfest” – the dragonfest-, I mean the Kite festival.

The Tempelhofer Feld (Field of Tempelhof) is a park that used to be the Tempelhof Airport, functioning as such from 1923 – 2008.

Thousands of Berliners spent the day on the field enjoying the hundreds of kites many of them brought with them to fly collectively in a Volfsfest like atmosphere.

Meanwhile the organizers of the Drachenfest also provides multiple mega-sized contraptions to take to the air.

Including, fittingly, a dragon:

So much to share, from the large floats to the many varied “amateur” fliers. Let’s start with some panoramic shots of my first approach into the field from the North:

Now let’s check out the large Drachen the organizers raised into the air.

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RAVEN SCREENSHOTS

“The Raven – a musicabre“, the third of my Edgar Allan Poe short film musical adaptations, may be recently completed, but won’t be playing festivals until 2027. Still, I can whet the appetite by releasing the first set of screenshots from the film today.

In most of them you can see me, as the Narrator, experiencing a series of … reactions…

All these stills are taken directly from the film’s footage. However, although you will see these moments just as they are reproduced here, they won’t appear in the actual film exactly as you would expect to from looking at a movie still.

There is … how shall I put this … more to it …

And that’s all I will reveal about that for now …

Yes, that’s a lot of me. “The Raven – a musicabre” is another “one-man-musical” like “The Tell-Tale Heart – a musicabre” and “The Pit and the Pendulum – a musicabre” before it. But my faccia brutta doesn’t dominate the screen; there are other subjects that capture the camera’s eye and fill the screen.

For example many varied and fascinating locations. Here a glimpse of one:

I’ll tell you more about this fascinating place in a later blog piece… as well as all the many other fascinating places where I filmed. (Actually I’ve already shared a bit about one or two of them,…)

And I’m not the only person visible in the film. Edward Elder, my husband, as the “Masked Man”, again fulfills his role as “my own personal Hitchcock cameo” – by which I mean he has been seen in all my Poe musicabre films, and I intend that he shall be seen in every one of my films.

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MORNING LIGHT

Traveling.

Sleeping in an unusual bedroom.

Waking up in the morning to sunlight making its way into the room; direct, shadowed, reflected, refracted…

A cloud, apparently, darkens the sunlight …

But not for long…

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Looking Up in New York 3

Up Broadway from 23rd to 40th

In this “special edition” of the “Looking Up in New York” series (see here and here and here), we look up along Broadway from around 23rd to around 40th streets. To be honest, the day I took these pictures, I was walking down Broadway; but I choose to present them here as if walking up from 23rd Street. So that I can start this tour with the iconic Flatiron building.

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Looking Up in New York 2

The chin-up photo collection continues

The “Looking up in New York” series continues. This is the second installment looking up in Manhattan, but you can catch me looking up in Brooklyn too.

In fact, I have so many pics gathering for the next installement, I’ll make it a double, following this post up shortly with “Looking Up in New York 3”.

The only nighttime pic in this installment (but not the only Empire State pic):

The building below was being renovated, and the scaffolding wraparound cleverly made it look like a multi-story high suitcase.

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Resurrection of my own personal NEW YORKER CARTOON captions

He got him from a breeder in Vienna.

And we’re back with the 15th installment of my own personal New Yorker cartoon captions. Having exhausted all possible biblical book titles, I must now cast about elsewhere for inspiration in naming the many sequels of this blog post series. This time a recent unrelated event helped. Now I’ve got at least 6 weeks before I got to come up with another sequel title. That and come up with 6 more caption ideas…

Take that one uptown.

Have you tried a catamaran?

Can we talk about him now?

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The Picture is Locked

“The Raven – a musicabre” is completed

I signed off on the final version and my editor Stolis Hadjicharalambous sent me the files: “The Raven – a musicabre”, the third in a series of Poe musicabres, short film musical adaptations of Edgar Allan Poe, is completed. After the classic short stories “The Tell-Tale Heart” and “The Pit and the Pendulum“, now Poe’s most famous poem “The Raven” gets the full “musicabre” treatment.

So to commemorate the moment I am adding another screenshot (see above) and a (preliminary) poster (see below) to the Raven page. The next step for the short film will be film festivals, but don’t expect those screenings before 2027. Sorry to keep you in suspense. But rest assured the film will be viewable sometime, not nevermore… In the meantime I will keep posting on this website more tidbits about the making of the film and the interesting locations it was filmed …

Because it has been quite the journey …

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COMPANY XIV’s PETIT ROUGE

Company XIV are still at it. Eleven years ago I marveled at their cheeky blend of circus and burlesque, opera and pop, corsets and tassels when they presented Cinderella at the Minetta Lane in Manhattan. The company now has their own theater in less tony Brooklyn, where their same antic aesthetic now serves Little Red Hiding Hood in Petit Rouge.

The level of artistry may now be less high class and more scrappy, but it is still plenty fun, and the cocktails being served are very delicious and very potent.

Company XIV not only allows but encourages taking and sharing photos and videos. So here is a taste of what Ed and I experienced when we took in Petit Rouge on his birthday earlier this month.

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RESURRECTION now in full on line

The Film Where I Play a Resurrected Corpse

“Resurrection”, the short comedy/drama by Sam Zaslov-Braverman, in which I play Randell, a deceased man alloted extra life to give the eulogy at his own funeral, is now viewable in full on line. You can go watch it here, or click below:

I shot the film last year in Ithaca. I previously posted about the film shoot (click here) and the town of Ithaca (specifically the Ithaca Space Walk). Those are both fun posts I recommend you check out or re-view. Especially the former, after you’ve watched the short film and now want to get some behind the scenes on set insight.

Much of “Resurrection” will be familiar if you have checked out my Actor Reel Page, as I have already posted a three minute highlight reel of my performance there. But now you can watch the whole film. Hope you enjoy it.

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